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Day 27 #MHAM #MHMABC Don't give up.

"You Are Loved (Don't Give Up)" Watch the Josh Grogan video below and listen to the lyrics. How does it make you feel? Which lyrics do you find especially inspiring?





Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don't give up
Because you are loved

Don't give up
It's just the hurt that you hide
When you're lost inside
I...I will be there to find you

Don't give up
Because you want to burn bright
If darkness blinds you
I...I will shine to guide you

This reminds me a lot of my spouse. When I am in pain, he comforts me. When I am lost, he finds me. When I am depressed, he is there for me. When I feel useless, he reminds me of what I can do. He supports me in my disability and motivates me in the things I desire to do. He cares about my health and well-being and strives to help me be the best and healthiest I can be mentally, emotionally and physically. He knows when I need some alone time and knows when I need some socialization time. Knows when i should take it easy and when i can do a little more. 

He was there when I did give up. And I had to explain to him why. It was extremely difficult to explain to someone why the pain was so bad you just decided... no more of this living thing. So he is very attentive to me in regards to issues he things are concerning for my health. Things he might not have worried about in the past, he pays attention to now. Because he does not want me to give up on life, on him, on anything. 

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